What’s Up With Nick

Nicholas has been going back to school since the beginning of the new semester.  Things have been going very well.  We have even been able to push is appointment back.  And believe it or not, he is going to be trying out for the Tennis Team!  This has been a dream for him for quite a while now and I believe he is going to be able to do it.  He is LOVING school.  He has all of his favorite subjects: Art, Strength and Conditioning (weightlifting and fitness), U. S. History, and Biology.  He is in absolute heaven I tell you.

He is continuing to use the new inhaled antibiotic every other month – I think this is one of the main, BIG differences in his life.  Aside from the fact that he has really matured and gotten more serious about his meds, his treatments, and his life in general, he FEELS GOOD!  His cough is almost completely at 0% – which we haven’t been able to say in a very long time, and he is able to do things he hasn’t been able to do in a few years now.  His stamina is growing and I think he is doing so much better over all.  He had been becoming short of breath at the thought of doing anything and now he is going, going, going…

Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers guys.  They really mean the world to us and they are WORKING!  Keep up the good work and thanks for checking in.

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Updates

Ok…so Nicholas went down this afternoon for his lung function test.  It was up to 54% from 37% a week ago.  I am so relieved that he is getting better.  We are so thankful…that thirty-seven percent scared me a little. 

He’s had a great birthday considering he is in the hospital.  The nurses decorated his door with a sign and balloons.  He got a BUNCH of cards and he has just had a great day.  The cafeteria staff gave him a birthday cake.  My mama went up to visit with my niece and nephew and I think he really enjoyed that.  She took him stuff to eat too.

And I am happy to report that Monica went home today.  We also have another praise…our preacher’s wife, Rosa, had surgery to remove a tumor from her brain today at Duke.  She came through the surgery just great, the doctors got all of the tumor out, and they say that it wasn’t cancerous.  Isn’t God just a wonderful God?  We have had some much good news today. 

I have taken the day off tomorrow so I can go up to the hospital for the weekend.  Can’t wait to see my boys.  Thanks for checking in, for the prayers, and for the cards that Nicholas has recieved.  He told me that he has gotten 37 as of this afternoon.  That is just awesome!  🙂  You guys are the best!

Thursday, November 5th

Today is Nicholas’ 17th birthday.  It is amazing how fast the years have flown by.  It seems only yesterday we were pulling him around in a wagon for entertianment…now he’s driving us around.  When I really sit down and think about it, I feel like I have missed his growing up.  We have all been so busy with school, work, and trying to get through day by day with his illness, that the years are gone and we can’t get them back.

This realization just makes me want to cherish each moment even more.  He is growing up, he needs us less, and that will not change.  It will only get worse for John and I as parents.  While we realize he is growing up and he is becoming more independent, we still know that he is our son and we want to do everything we can for him.  I guess that is the case with all parents.  I don’t even want to think about the fact that my baby girl is 14 and a freshman in high school.  Then that makes me realize that OMG Nicholas is going to be graduating from high school next year!!!  Wow…

So the word from the Hill is that everything is progressing along.  Nicholas is going to be doing a lung function test today so we are praying that his numbers are WAY up from the 37 % he went in with.  Sorry I haven’t posted in a couple of days.  It is hard to post sometimes when I’m not there and I have limited conversations…  🙂  Anyway, as soon as I hear the results of the lung function test, I will post again.

Happy Birthday Nicholas!!  We love you!

Getting Settled

Well we’ve been home for a little over a week now.  We are so loving being home.  Nicholas seems to be adjusting to being back home more smoothly than usual.  He is doing really well with keeping up with his meds, physical therapy, and other treatments.  John has taken him fishing this week while he has been on day shift.  He goes back on night shift next week so we won’t see much of him except on the weekend.  😦

I am praying that we can keep Nick active enough that he will continue to do well so he can enjoy the rest of the summer and have a good start to the school year – if we can ever get the end of this year straightened out.

We are also praying for me in respect to a job.  I never thought I would be worried about a job at the end of my education, but here we are.  Please pray for our state government.  They are working to pass a budget.  Our counties are on a hiring freeze until they can pass one.  Education is taking a beating right now.  I won’t go on about this one ’cause it will put me on my soapbox.  🙂

I just ask that you continue to pray for our family and I thank you for your prayers for us so far.  Coming home from the hospital does not mean that everything goes away like a regular illness.  There is still a lot of work and maintenance to do to keep Nicholas healthy.

Love to all…Robin

The 4th of July

Everybody always likes the 4th of July holiday.  After all, we are celebrating the Independence of our country…right? Some people have birthdays on this day so that gives them something extra special to celebrate.  By the way, happy birthday Nancy!  I love you!

The 4th of July holiday holds something different for me.  Fifteen years ago today, John and I were at Pitt Memorial Hospital with Nicholas.  We had been agonizing for months; wondering what was wrong with our precious little baby.  Due to my suspicions as a mother of what he may have, we had been through several doctors and were feeling helplessly at the end of our ropes.  We could see that Nicholas was getting worse and no one would listen to us.  We were not in a relationship with Jesus Christ at the time so we had no peace…no comfort. 

After 6 months of trying to get a doctor that would test Nicholas for cystic fibrosis (cf), Dr. Taylor came in the room at 1pm on July 4th, 1994 and told us what I knew all along.  Nicholas had cystic fibrosis.  See what I didn’t realize was that even though we were not acknowledging that God was in our lives, He was there all along.  He had been with me my whole life preparing me for what we were about to go through as a family. 

Most of you know that my mama and daddy had been foster parents while I was growing up and we had Amie with us for a while.  She had cf and we learned all about the disease, medications, and physical therapy with her.  You can read more here (You should start at the bottom and work your way up.  Later, as an adult, one of my first jobs was with the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.  God had been preparing me for this day.  He had been with me through all of it and He is still with me today. 

As I look back and see the steps along the roads of my life so far, I feel blessed to be able to see the proof of what my mama and my grandmother had always told me – “everything happens for a reason.”  For whatever reason, God has chosen me and my family to fulfill a task for him.  We may never know what it is.  We may never know who it is for.  We may be doing it now.  It may take years, months, a day, an hour, a moment…All I know is that where ever we go He is with us.  Whatever we go through, He is carrying us.  Whatever is in store for us tomorrow, He has it under control.

As you celebrate this 4th of July, be thankful that we have an independent country.  Pray that our country can stay this way and recover from its burdens.  Be thankful for your family.  Be thankful for your health.  Celebrate your life.  I thank God for the many blessings He has bestowed upon our family.  Things could always be worse than what it is.  We are thankful for the time we have been given.  Tell your family you love them today.  Reach out to the ones you don’t see everyday and tell them you love them too.  Celebrate every moment.

Happy 4th of July everybody.  Thanks for checking in today.

Love in Christ…Robin

Home At Last!

Believe it or not, we finally left Chapel Hill around 5:00. I know…long, unimportant story. We stopped in Wilson to pick up a few things and then went home and unpacked the car. I mean…literally, we threw everything in my room, used the bathroom, and then got right back into the car to go get my baby (Oscar). Oscar is our miniature Dachshund and I missed him SO much. My daddy was not too happy to give him up I think. My mama is in Florida so it was just daddy and Oscar hanging out. I think he’s going to be kinda lonely until mama gets back.

Then we stopped at Brian and Heather’s house to see them and Kailey. Gosh she is growing up so fast. We finally got back home around 9:30.

I have almost completely unpacked everything and I am waiting for John to get home. He doesn’t get home from work until 1:20ish – AM.

Thank you all so much for your prayers for Nicholas over the past three weeks, but especially over the past couple of days. It has been kind of rough and we couldn’t have made it through without your prayers and God’s gift of grace.

We are now praying that Nicholas will continue to strengthen now that he is home. He has got to work on building his strength and stamina back up. He is really looking forward to the holiday so he can get some swimming in at his Aunt Kim’s house before the fireworks and homemade icecream. He has talked of nothing much else today.

He is not scheduled to go back until August 5th, but I will keep in touch through the blog so you guys will know “What’s Up With Nick.”

Love to you all,
Robin

Still Waiting…

We are showered and packed and ready to go.  All the paperwork is ready, but no lung function test yet.  He said he would be here around 11 am but, alas, nobody…

God bless America!!!  They just came in and said that he is going to try to squeeze us in between 1:30 and 2:00.  UGH!!!  Patience is not a virtue of mine – can you tell?  Please pray that our anxiousness will be calmed and that they will hurry and come get him for the test so we can go home!

I will let you know anything new as soon as we can.  🙂

We did have some good news on top of all this…Nicholas’ weight is up to 116.9 pounds!!!!!!  Almost back to his all-time high!  I had to leave on a good note.

Robin