The 4th of July

Everybody always likes the 4th of July holiday.  After all, we are celebrating the Independence of our country…right? Some people have birthdays on this day so that gives them something extra special to celebrate.  By the way, happy birthday Nancy!  I love you!

The 4th of July holiday holds something different for me.  Fifteen years ago today, John and I were at Pitt Memorial Hospital with Nicholas.  We had been agonizing for months; wondering what was wrong with our precious little baby.  Due to my suspicions as a mother of what he may have, we had been through several doctors and were feeling helplessly at the end of our ropes.  We could see that Nicholas was getting worse and no one would listen to us.  We were not in a relationship with Jesus Christ at the time so we had no peace…no comfort. 

After 6 months of trying to get a doctor that would test Nicholas for cystic fibrosis (cf), Dr. Taylor came in the room at 1pm on July 4th, 1994 and told us what I knew all along.  Nicholas had cystic fibrosis.  See what I didn’t realize was that even though we were not acknowledging that God was in our lives, He was there all along.  He had been with me my whole life preparing me for what we were about to go through as a family. 

Most of you know that my mama and daddy had been foster parents while I was growing up and we had Amie with us for a while.  She had cf and we learned all about the disease, medications, and physical therapy with her.  You can read more here (You should start at the bottom and work your way up.  Later, as an adult, one of my first jobs was with the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.  God had been preparing me for this day.  He had been with me through all of it and He is still with me today. 

As I look back and see the steps along the roads of my life so far, I feel blessed to be able to see the proof of what my mama and my grandmother had always told me – “everything happens for a reason.”  For whatever reason, God has chosen me and my family to fulfill a task for him.  We may never know what it is.  We may never know who it is for.  We may be doing it now.  It may take years, months, a day, an hour, a moment…All I know is that where ever we go He is with us.  Whatever we go through, He is carrying us.  Whatever is in store for us tomorrow, He has it under control.

As you celebrate this 4th of July, be thankful that we have an independent country.  Pray that our country can stay this way and recover from its burdens.  Be thankful for your family.  Be thankful for your health.  Celebrate your life.  I thank God for the many blessings He has bestowed upon our family.  Things could always be worse than what it is.  We are thankful for the time we have been given.  Tell your family you love them today.  Reach out to the ones you don’t see everyday and tell them you love them too.  Celebrate every moment.

Happy 4th of July everybody.  Thanks for checking in today.

Love in Christ…Robin


4 Responses to “The 4th of July”

  1. mikebatts Says:

    BTW, missed you guys in Sunday school! The Lord through Isaiah puttin’ it on prideful Babylon-Ch.14. And Assyria. And Philistia.

  2. mikebatts Says:

    Wonderful post, Robin. What weight this date must carry. Granny, thanks for bringing it all back to Jesus Christ. It helps me dwell on the day we are promised, when Nicholas will breathe freely and unrestricted as he worship the Savior, not a sign of fatigue anywhere. Griffin family, thanks for being conquerors in Christ for all the world (wide web) to see.

  3. Granny Says:

    Each person travels a different path in life,but without Jesus
    in our life,end of each day will be totally different. We learn,gain, and loose but in all we give thanks thru prayer.GOD never walks out of your life,even if we fell to acknowledge he is there. I am so wonderfully blessed with 4 children,7 of the fasted growing beautiful grandchildren(1 great grandchild) a woman could ever ask for. Not to mention a very loving and compassionate husband. Nicholas was /still is such a blessing in his personal acceptance of his disease. Nicholas has a true gift of love that shines thru in his smile, personality that is his alone. How grateful we all are for his personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He will never know how it thrilled my heart to see him asking for more of his Granny’s banana ice cream. It was a fabulous July 4th. Thank-you GOD for our freedom and for Edgecombe county. Yes,I do remember that day in Greenville and all those long days at UNC that hot summer so long ago.We have all shared and learned a lot because of Nicholas. Love you all! Granny

  4. Katey Ballard Says:

    Happy 4th!! Great post!! God is definitely in control and always a part of everything! I’m so thankful for my relationship with him!

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